Even if you do a search on the Internet for individuals that… a lady of your dreams… your soul-mate… the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things. Unfortunately, you can also do a lot of things wrong…. Things that guarantee failure and a broken heart. In the “real” world, be aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all the ingredients for success. However, these same qualities are killers when you are on-line and off-line dating, too, for that matter.
There is a big difference between being aggressive and being too aggressive and confident, too confident, or simply sleazy viscous or the woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will find that too aggressive… perhaps even frightening. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and maintain the relationship is progressing at a slow but steady rate. Patience is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in one way or another… and that includes you, too. If you expect women to be absolutely perfect and demand that you are always disappointed. Demanding perfection in your work is one thing. Applications perfectionism of a friend, co-worker or a woman you fancy is not only beautiful. It will not happen. Just wait and rectify defects. Decide what you can live with yourself and those who can not.
Little white lies and false fronts will not work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. The report interesting, but not to make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say that you are a lawyer who makes a million dollars a year and you are really an electrician who makes $ 75000, you have in place for a failure. Remember, do not be too aggressive, never expect to find perfection or put on a false front.
